I think it's disgusting when somebody is being cheated on and people say "it's your fault for not meeting their needs". Maybe the person being cheated on was the worst spouse ever but that's no excuse for cheating, there are other options and divorce if the worst comes to... More results like this http://howtocatchacheater.net/2398/why-do-people-blame-the-person-being-cheated-on/ Tags:01234567catchcheater89101112spouse13cheated1415divorcepersonworst1617